#WritingRomance #AmWriting

This blog post is going to help my writer brain focus on one of my current projects. I do hope someone else out there writing a second chance romance finds it useful.

Second chance romance is one of my favourite romance tropes. I could read these stories all day.

One of my current projects focuses on a second chance romance so I could really do with going back to basics with the trope in order to revise my story.

Below I have come up with a list of all the things to consider when writing a second chance romance.

As I am madly in love with this particular artwork on Canva I am going to use it to pose the questions which I need to answer when writing this trope.

How did they initially connect? Were they childhood sweethearts? Maybe they met at work? The secret here is readers need to see and feel how good that connection was between these two beautiful characters. This breathtaking romance has to be unforgettable for both readers and the characters.

Why did they split up? What made them walk away from each other? Were they too young? Was it a case of bad timing or did one hurt the other? What broke them? Readers need to understand what made these characters go blubber into a box of Kleenex, wedge chocolate into their mouth and go for long solitary walks in the rain.

What personal growth have they experienced? What has life taught them in the years they were apart? What did other relationships teach them? Have they thought about why they have never connected with anyone on the same romantic level as they did with each other?

What made them want to give their relationship another chance? Why can’t they disentangle from each other’s lives? What has made them come together again? Why salvage a broken relationship? The reader must understand and agree with these decisions. There must also be that old connection and the chemistry.

What stuff have they overcome? Have they resolved the old conflict? Readers need to see how these two characters might have had different priorities that caused their breakup. But now that those priorities have changed, so, maybe there is still a chance for them to work it out. It could also be a case of these two characters making mistakes and generally causing an emotional mess. The reader needs to believe these two have changed for the better.

I feel better now.

Do you have any things I should add to my list of considerations?

8 comments on “Things To Consider When Writing Second Chance Romance #amwriting

  1. All great questions to ask ourselves.
    Love a second chance romance! 💜

  2. I love the idea of showing how the characters help each other grow, in love and as individuals. ❤️

  3. A brilliant snd really useful blog post Lucy. I’ve written the first draft of my first novel and it’s about second chances in rekindling a love that’s definitely gone off the boil. Your points are really going to help this very wet around the ears, would be author with the edits. Thank you.

  4. This is my favourite romance trope!!!! I love that jaw-dropping first re-meet when they stare at each other like, damn he still looks ammaaaazzzzzzzingg, and why was I such an idiot, and there’s an awkward ‘no need to introduce us, we already know one another (but not (yet) in the biblical sense).’ Swoon.

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