✨ Everyday Magic: The Unexplainable Moments in Life #MondayBlogs #everydaymagic

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Every now and then, something happens that makes us pause. It might be tiny, almost ordinary, yet it makes us stop and think. It carries a weird feeling that something else is at play. Some call it coincidence. Others call it fate.

I like to think of it as everyday magic. ✨🪄

Something big has happened in my life. I can’t talk about it just yet, but when I tell you about the strange synchronicities, how the stars aligned and the weird signals that preceded its arrival, you will give me a knowing nod.

We often imagine magic as something dramatic – spells, miracles, glowing orbs, but often it quietly slips into our lives in ways that don’t demand to be understood.

👩🏼‍🦰 The Right Person at the Right Time

Have you ever run into someone whom you hadn’t seen in years, right when you needed them most? Or a stranger enters your life and helps you achieve things you never thought were not even possible?

Those chance encounters often feel like more than coincidence. But to me, they feel like the universe is winking 😜

Signs and Synchronicities

Numbers on clocks, songs on the radio, feathers on the ground and repeating patterns that appear when you’re thinking deeply about someone. When I think about my dad I always see a white feather or hear a guitar playing.

These signs can sometimes feel like little messages.

Science might be boring and call them pattern recognition, but I think they give us a sense of connection with something unseen.

🔮 The Quiet Answers

Sometimes the answers we search for don’t come from books or conversations. They arrive in stillness, during a dog walk, a toilet dash in the early hours or a passing breeze. It’s as if the world whispers back when we finally get quiet enough to listen.

🤺 Moments of Protection

There are stories we carry, the near misses, the close calls, the strange pull that made us take another route or change our plans. We may not be able to explain why, but we’re grateful. These are moments which make sceptics wonder if something is watching out for us.

🌈 Everyday Wonders

Magic doesn’t need to be mysterious. Sometmes its the simple things: skies turning gold, clouds clearing at the right moment, the warmth of a hug or the sudden smell of something from your childhood.

A next time something small and strange makes your heart skip, smile. ⭐️ Magic is at work ⭐️

🏃🏻‍♀️How Following Athletes on Social Media Turned Me Into a Motivated Writer #MondayBlogs #writer

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For years, my social media feed has been a stream of writing advice, trending writer quotes and hacks on how to write more words. I have followed countless authors and writing coaches. I have spent hours celebrating their book successes, admiring their book covers, and appreciating their writing practices.

One day over the summer, I found myself spending more time scrolling through their feeds looking for motivation to write, but I wasn’t actually writing.

So, I made an odd decision. I started following professional athletes and filling up my social media feeds with their training vlogs. I still followed the authors, but I shifted my focus.

In my youth, I was a long-distance runner, so watching athletes train for the 800m and 1500m events felt like reconnecting with that younger version of myself. I started following GB athletes like Keely Hodgkinson, Georgia Hunter-Bell, Laura Muir and Jemma Reekie. I also followed American sprinters such as Melissa Jefferson-Wooden and Sydney McLaughlin-Levrone.

I began watching their training vlogs on YouTube and their Insta reels, where they discuss discipline and the mental battles they face. I admired their physical dedication, the way they tracked progress, and their calm acceptance of failure as part of the growth process. I admired them for showing up to train in the pouring rain, the suffocating heat, and the times when they faced personal issues off the track. They persevered through the training despite the challenges.

Soon, something shifted inside me.

Athletes made me view discipline in a new light. Watching athletes train reframed discipline for me. They don’t just “feel like” going to training, they go because that’s who they are. Their discipline isn’t glamorous; it’s about repetition, consistency, and patience, in all weathers. Writing is not glamorous. I write books, and they often feel like marathons. My books require me to show up regularly, not when I feel like it.

Progress became about progress, not about perfection. Athletes celebrate small milestones, such as shaving off a second or two, achieving a better sprint, overcoming the little things in the finish, and improving their running style. I started celebrating the little wins with my writing. It became less about the outcome and more about the process.

The power of training. I have started viewing my writing sessions as my own form of training with adequate periods of rest afterwards. Instead of searching for motivation, I have begun building discipline. Instead of waiting for creativity to strike, I have trained for it.

Writing is a sport of endurance and a test of patience and mental toughness. It’s about showing every day and trusting that repetition makes us stronger.

💖 Love, Lost and Found: Mastering the Second Chance Romance Plot

This blog post is going to help my writer brain focus on one of my current projects. I do hope someone else out there writing a second chance romance finds it useful.

Second chance romance is one of my favourite romance tropes. I could read these stories all day.

One of my current projects focuses on a second chance romance so I could really do with going back to basics with the trope in order to revise my story.

Below I have come up with a list of all the things to consider when writing a second chance romance.

How did they initially connect?

Were they childhood sweethearts? Maybe they met at work?

The secret here is readers need to see and feel how good that connection was between these two beautiful characters. This breathtaking romance has to be unforgettable for both readers and the characters.

Why did they split up? What made them walk away from each other? Were they too young? Was it a case of bad timing or did one hurt the other? What broke them?

Readers need to understand what made these characters go blubber into a box of Kleenex, wedge chocolate into their mouth and go for long solitary walks in the rain.

What personal growth have they experienced? What has life taught them in the years they were apart? What did other relationships teach them? Have they thought about why they have never connected with anyone on the same romantic level as they did with each other?

What made them want to give their relationship another chance? Why can’t they disentangle from each other’s lives? What has made them come together again? Why salvage a broken relationship?

The reader must understand and agree with these decisions. There must also be that old connection and the chemistry.

What stuff have they overcome? Have they resolved the old conflict? Readers need to see how these two characters might have had different priorities that caused their breakup. But now that those priorities have changed, so, maybe there is still a chance for them to work it out. It could also be a case of these two characters making mistakes and generally causing an emotional mess.

The reader needs to believe these two have changed for the better.

Here’s my second chance romance which got published:

Second chances at the Little Love Cafe

It’s never too late to try again… 💕

‘Must read summer book’ ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

‘A fantastic uplifting read that takes you direct to the cute Little Love Cafe.’ ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

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