This is a strange time to be living in right now. The world feels like it’s in chaos. So, this week I have decided to write about something which gives me strength and makes me positive; my blog.
I am a few weeks away from my 6th year blogging anniversary. Still can’t believe I have been blogging for that long. What started out as something to give me a break from my squabbling children, rugby mad husband and boisterous pets on wet Sunday afternoons has turned into a big part of my life.
Here are 10 lessons from my 6 years of blogging:
1. Blogging is like a fertile creative soil and other things grow from it. This is the thing which has surprised me. My blog has grown and nurtured so many creative projects; my Roxy Collins diary which went super crazy on Wattpad, my Roxy Collins podcast which I recorded whilst locked inside my teenage daughter’s cupboard every Friday after a few gin & tonics, my novel, my book blogging and a LOT of short stories.
2. My happiest times have been when I stopped caring about blog stats. When I wrote The Diary of Roxy Collins as a weekly serial I never gave two hoots about my blog stats. This was one of my best times as a blogger. There’s something in this because when I recorded my podcast deep inside my daughter’s shoe cupboard and put each episode live I didn’t care about stats or numbers. I had so much fun. It lit me upside. Like someone had turned on a light. It was only when I started looking at my blog stats and podcast data that the good times ended.
3. The bad blogging times have been signals in disguise that I need to change direction. Looking back now I can see this more clearly. However, when you are fed up with blogging and can’t face turning up to write a post each week it’s hard to see. All my bad blogging times have been the start of change.
4. Blogging breaks are marvellous things. You don’t have to quit blogging, you just need a break. I am so glad I found blogging breaks and took them. It’s so nice to come back after a few months feeling rejuvenated and created.
5. Blogging is a stress buster. Writing a blog post is for me one of the best ways to relieve stress.
6. Blogs are like trees. They take years of nurture and love to grow. They will chart your creative journey and they will one day bear creative fruits. These fruits might not bring you fame and fortune but they will be of great value to you in other ways. The great thing about life is that you won’t be able to see their value straightaway. One day you will stop and think – ‘wow – that blog post changed my life.’
7. Getting my blog links to work was one of my biggest struggles. Oh my goodness – other bloggers struggle with SEO rankings and branding. Me – well I struggled with copying, pasting and inserting a link into a little box for 2 YEARS! 🙈
8. My blog has been a great teacher. Its taught me about all sorts of things like checking for typos, grammar and resilience.
9. Fictional characters who were born inside my blog posts will never leave me. Roxy Collins – I will do something with you. I promise ❤️
10. I have met some fabulous and life changing people on my blog. They have been a huge part of my journey and without them I wouldn’t be here today.
Thank you to everyone who reads, comments and shares my posts week in and week out. You are all fabulous. 🌸📚
If you don’t have a blog and want something creative to do during these strange times, I would strongly recommend starting one. Blogs are great stress busters, they make excellent journals and you never know what might come of it 📚
Well, I wouldn’t have met you, if I hadn’t begun my blog, a few months after you 💜💜💜
And, yes, DO SOMETHING WITH ROXY!!!!
I love this post! I have learned and am still learning every day thanks to my blog, and I would be lost without this constant in my life. I’ve also met so many wonderful people here, it’s my safe place x
Lovely comment x Thank you Meggy ❤️
I so agree with all of this, I’ve been blogging for 10 years and have learned so much from the experience and the good people I have met through blogging.
Lucy, I am thrilled you started this blog years ago. I look forward to it every week and feel like I’m spending a bit of time with a friend. ❤️
I am thrilled you have stayed with me and my blog 😍🌸
Thank you Darlene 😍
Happy bloggerversary! I think number 2 is important because you (you, me, everybody) write better when you’re not fussing over numbers.
So true 😍
Thanks for sharing your journey! I’m nowhere near 6 years, not consistently at least, but I’m appreciating every moment. Happy Blogging! ~WB
Happy blogging to you too 😍 Thank you for reading my post 💐
Oh my god, wow – so much truth here! Blogging is a beautiful thing, but sometimes you do have to step back from it and ignore those stats. And Roxy Collins became a podcast. What?! Let me at it! Where can I here this amazingness? Xx
Thank you for this! I am afraid I took the Roxy podcast down but I am proud of it. I got 2000 downloads which I think is pretty good 😍
Wow – you’re a superstar! I’m so impressed. Xx
Thank you 🥰
I enjoy blogging too. But some days it does feel too hard to keep going and sometimes breaks are vital. And we shouldn’t be hard on ourselves when we need a break. I’ve been on a break for a while now for a whole range of reasons, including family, busy day job, and other creative work that has been dominating my headspace. But I’m keen to get back to my writing world and writing friends now. 🙂
Breaks are good 😍